Dating Secret tip #6 Discover the best places and ways to find your dream date
I am advocating dating with ease. That’s why long distance relationships don’t fit into my mentoring program. A common complaint I hear from women over 40 is that they’ve found a great guy but he lives interstate, 2 hours away or in another country.
The chances of this long distance relationship succeeding is very unlikely. And even if it does succeed, the journey traveled comes with a great deal of loneliness, frustration, uncertainty and heartache. The key here is, on your core list of your dream man, define finding him in your local area, as I did with Philip, my darling husband of 7 years. We lived just 10 minutes away from each other. I explore this further in my dating effortlessly program.
Let’s look at dating options:
• Dating agencies
• Blind dates
• Speed dating
• Online dating
• Social clubs
• Place a personal ad
• Answer a personal ad
• Ask a man out
• Your network of friends and family
• A club of interest to you which men also would join, e.g. walking, tennis, rotary, 10 pins bowling
• Think outside the square. What about putting your story on the local radio or TV channel or in your local newspaper? The media knows that both men and women can relate to the difficulty in finding a partner so your story would have a broad appeal.
In short, there is no right or wrong way of finding your dream man. It’s a personal choice.
But you need to know the pros and cons of each option right from the start… instead of learning the hard way. You also need to know the secret to writing an effective personal ad on line and off line.
My mentoring program explores and exposes the hidden problems and benefits of all the dating options.
I’ll also show you how to pick which personal ads to reply to that give you the highest chance of success. And that minimize your risk and save you time and pain.