I have chosen this title for my book because it fits the characteristics of a culture that develops fear, insecurity, doubts, and dishonesty in its very intelligent, ambitious, and hardworking people. This is a culture that treats boys and girls differently developing a sense of dominance, grandiosity, Narcissism, controlling, igrance in men and a sense of passivity, inferiority, anxiety, and paraia in women, the symptoms in either group present only pathology. The intention of this book is by means to be religious or political but Iranian people in essence have been religious. The religion that its very beauty has less been kwn. It has been transformed to develop fear of God bringing the fear of badconsequences if t followed the concepts, rules, and practices created over time by the religious leaderswhose qualifications are often questionable. It was this mentality of Iranians that was well recognized by western countries behind the revolution, well better kwn than Iranian themselves that helped the success of revolution in Iran. It was t the people's kwledge of who they are and who they want to choose. It is the self-identity, self-kwledge, and the self-respect that is highly missed. The culture emphasizes on the children's future social development but much less on the conscious healthy personality traits as they grow. Millions of Iranians demonstrated on the streets welcoming whom they did t kw. The reaction to the outcome is w opposition demonstrating anti-religious attitudes, the religion the reality of which neither the people r the leaders kw. The current religious aggressive interpretation of Islam around the world is way far from theSpiritual Sufi mystic approach of Prophet Mohammad; the very true principle of which followed by great numerousIranian men including Mowlana, Shams Tabrizi, Hafez. Saadi, and Baba Taher. It was the Mowlana's book, translated from Farsi to English that sold 700,000 copies in 2013 in America. It is the intention of this book tohelp people to learn about their psychology to become less confused. My attention has been on the training andparenting issues throughout the book. I am wondering how a confused parent can raise a t confused kid.