Is mepause an Equal Opportunity anyer? Ask any cat, and she won't kw what you're talking about, but ask any woman of a certain age and that woman may well have a few choice words to say on the subject. In With the Right Hat... They'll Never Notice the Whiskers, author K.P. Kelly lets some cranky chapeau-loving feline friends do the talking, approaching this heated topic with wry humor, a waggish attitude, and more than a few catty comments.