Stand Up Doormat: A Relationship Survival Guide for the Nice Guy: (Understanding Women, Love, Spirituality & Ourselves) by Gary Dejidas (Paperback / softback, 2013)
Tired of being taken advantage of for being too nice? You don't have to turn into a jerk, but you will have to change. It took me many years and tons of mistakes to figure out what I was doing wrong. Call Stand Up, Doormat an instruction manual for Nice Guys or whatever, just don't make the same stupid mistakes that I did. Please. Awesome Chicks want a bad boy about as badly as they want their next car to be a 1988 Corolla. Hot chicks wanting to date a jerk is a total myth. Every woman wants to date a nice guy. But woman wants a doormat. Huge difference. Doormats equal respect, and get walked all over. After I finished writing this Nice Guy Relationship Survival Guide, a thought occurred to me. Most guys do t like to read. Being a guy myself, I kw the difficulty in getting myself to read anything besides a restaurant menu. Even then I prefer numbered pictures. There are so many things I'd rather be doing, watching, taking apart, I mean fixing... instead of reading. Even reading this description while I type it is a bit challenging. Then it hit me. I'll just include a perfectly cooked steak with each Kindle ebook purchase. Guys love a quality cut of meat. Download-a-steak links, with medium rare, medium, and medium well options. (A odle quiche link for my vegetarian buyers). But this Kindle download format is throwing a major wrench in my game. No matter how fast the download speed, I can't keep the steak hot. And body will be encouraged to buy this book if it comes with a cold T-Bone. Surprisingly, the odle quiche downloads perfectly every time. Tasty gimmicks aside... here's the deal. I spent 1000 days in relationship hell with women, before I finally found my spine. Like so many of us Nice Guys out there, I thought the answer was trying to make them happy. Being nice by sacrificing my needs for theirs. Well, after an extended stay in Motel Infer, I can assure you... that isn't the answer. We find the answer the moment we shift our focus off of them, and focus i-n-w-a-r-d, taking responsibility for our choices, lives and relationships. Stand Up, Doormat is one part Personal Growth & Spirituality, one part Understanding Women, and one part Learning What Women Really Want (And Really REALLY Don't Want). The chapters are also arranged like steps, in the same order I found most beneficial in my own journey from being a wimp with women, growing a set and ending my suffering, to finally getting out of relationship hell for good. Drama-free, awesome relationships are possible. Read these pages, and the they will come. The first 10 pages or so of the book are included as a free preview. Please CLICK on the picture of the book cover to open the preview. If you enjoy those opening pages, I kw you'll enjoy the entire book.
Product Identifiers
Publisher
Createspace
ISBN-10
1490913858
ISBN-13
9781490913858
eBay Product ID (ePID)
189715642
Additional Product Features
Content Note
Black & White Illustrations
Format
Paperback / Softback
Language
English
Author(s)
Gary Dejidas
Date of Publication
20/09/2013
Format Details
Unsewn / Adhesive Bound, Trade Paperback (US)
Subject
Popular Psychology
Imprint
Createspace
Country of Publication
United States
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