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Violent No More: Helping Men End Domestic Abuse, Third Ed. by Paymar, Michael
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- Condition
- Good
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- Binding
- Paperback
- Weight
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- Product Group
- Book
- IsTextBook
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- ISBN
- 9780897936651
- Book Title
- Violent No more : Helping Men End Domestic Abuse, Third Ed
- Publisher
- Turner Publishing Company
- Item Length
- 8.5 in
- Edition
- 3
- Publication Year
- 2015
- Format
- Trade Paperback
- Language
- English
- Illustrator
- Yes
- Genre
- Family & Relationships, Self-Help
- Topic
- Abuse / Domestic Partner Abuse, Self-Management / Anger Management (See Also Family & Relationships / Anger), Abuse / General, Anger (See Also Self-Help / Self-Management / Anger Management)
- Item Weight
- 0.4 Oz
- Item Width
- 5.5 in
- Number of Pages
- 402 Pages
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"Violent No More" is for men who have struggled with or are currently being violent in an intimate relationship. Filled with real stories of men who have harmed the ones they love and found the courage to change, this highly acclaimed book has helped thousands acknowledge and reform their abusive behavior. Author Michael Paymar doesn't sidestep the unpleasant reality of domestic violence--included here are the sometimes shocking first-person accounts of violent men, along with those of battered women. More importantly, many of these stories illustrate the ways in which men were able to stop their use of violence and control. This edition contains four new chapters which address the challenges faced by practitioners who work with domestic violence offenders or victims, and the particular struggles faced by combat veterans returning from war, many of whom come home with PTSD and other mental health issues. With group exercises and individual goal-setting plans to help men find healthy ways of responding to conflict, change the cultural conditioning that condones violence, and avoid reverting to old patterns, "Violent No More" is an essential guide for men dealing with violence issues, as well as for the professionals who assist in their efforts to improve.
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Publisher
Turner Publishing Company
ISBN-10
0897936655
ISBN-13
9780897936651
eBay Product ID (ePID)
172118467
Product Key Features
Edition
3
Book Title
Violent No more : Helping Men End Domestic Abuse, Third Ed
Number of Pages
402 Pages
Language
English
Publication Year
2015
Topic
Abuse / Domestic Partner Abuse, Self-Management / Anger Management (See Also Family & Relationships / Anger), Abuse / General, Anger (See Also Self-Help / Self-Management / Anger Management)
Illustrator
Yes
Genre
Family & Relationships, Self-Help
Format
Trade Paperback
Dimensions
Item Weight
0.4 Oz
Item Length
8.5 in
Item Width
5.5 in
Additional Product Features
Intended Audience
Trade
Dewey Edition
23
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"Finally, someone has written a book for men in offender groups, rather than for those of us who facilitate them. Paymar's book is written to men, using the voices of men. It poses the most central question to men who batter--how did I get here and what does it take for me to change?" -- Ellen Pence, Ph.D., founder of Duluth Domestic Abuse Intervention Project "A highlight of the book is the many inspiring stories by individual men of their violence and their process of change. This book should convince any man that we can and must stop violence against women." -- Paul Kivel, author of Men's Work: How to Stop the Violence that Tears Our Lives Apart, "Finally, someone has written a book for men in offender groups, rather than for those of us who facilitate them. Paymar's book is written to men, using the voices of men. It poses the most central question to men who batter—how did I get here and what does it take for me to change?" — Ellen Pence, Ph.D., founder of Duluth Domestic Abuse Intervention Project "A highlight of the book is the many inspiring stories by individual men of their violence and their process of change. This book should convince any man that we can and must stop violence against women." — Paul Kivel, author of Men's Work: How to Stop the Violence that Tears Our Lives Apart
Lccn
2015-934013
Dewey Decimal
616.85/82
Lc Classification Number
Rc569.5.F3p38 2015
Table of Content
Foreword Preface Acknowledgments Introduction Why Write a Book for Men Who Batter? A Note to the Reader Chapter 1: A Challenge for Men Andy's Story Andy's Story Five Years Later The First Step: Owning the Problem The Next Step: Getting Help How to Use This Book Chapter 2: The Roots of Men's Violence against Women The Superman Myth How Our Culture Encourages Violence The Struggle for Equality What Men Expect from Relationships Chapter 3: The Origins of Abuse and Sexual Violence Cassie's Story Bernice's Story Women and Violence The Violence We Learn at Home The Violence We Learn from Society Why We Use Violence Sexual Violence The Impact of Violence on Sexual Relationships Chapter 4: It's More Than Just Physical Violence Jim's Story Using Intimidation to Control Using Threats Blocking Her Freedom to Decide Using the Children to Get to Her The Pain of Emotional Abuse Understanding and Stopping Battering Chapter 5: Getting Past Denial Sid's Story Taking Responsibility Minimizing Violence Self-Defense or Retaliation? Guidelines for Remaining Nonviolent Letting Go of Blame Alcohol, Drugs, and Violence Anger Chapter 6: Making Changes and Staying on Track Mark's Story Letting Go Taking Time-Outs Time-Out Rules Self-Talk: Learning to Think Positively Handling Jealousy The Danger of Obsession Chapter 7: Staying Together What Traps a Woman in an Abusive Relationship? The Switzers' Story It May Always Be a Struggle Understanding and Accepting Women's Anger Changing the Mind-Set Getting Your Needs Met without Being Abusive Chapter 8: Resolving Conflicts, Strengthening Relationships Elliot's Story New Relationships, Old Problems Egalitarian Relationships Sharing the Load The Issue of Money Expressing Feelings Learning to Negotiate and Compromise Negotiation Guide Fair Discussion Guide Developing a Personal Responsibility Program Chapter 9: Healing Dave's Story Dave's Story Five Years Later Support for Changing Men New Definitions of Masculinity Health and Balance 1 Dating: How Much of the Past Do We Reveal? Talking to Your Children about Your Violence Staying on Course: Your Lifelong Commitment Chapter 10: Veterans Coming Home Hector's Story Screening for Mental Health Problems Veteran's Courts Changing Military Culture Chapter 11: Creating Change in Groups Ron's Story Expectations of Counseling The Theory and Practice of Offender Programs The Duluth Curriculum: New Approaches How Well Does Counseling Work? The Principles of an Offender Program Intake, Orientation and Screening Partner Orientation and Safety Procedures Controversies in the Field Research: What Do We Know? Women that Use Violence in Relationships Chapter 12: Danger and Lethality Dale's Story from Prison Assessment Tools Chapter 13: Primary Prevention: The New Frontier Stopping Rape on College Campuses Reducing Demand for Violent Pornography Trafficking: Choices for Men Backlash: The War on Women Social Change
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2015
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