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Love with Accountability : Digging up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse by Aishah
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- Subject Area
- Family & Relationships, Medical
- Subject
- Abuse / Child Abuse, Internal Medicine
- ISBN
- 9781849353526
- Publication Name
- Love with Accountability : Digging Up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse
- Item Length
- 8 in
- Publisher
- A + K Press
- Publication Year
- 2019
- Type
- Textbook
- Format
- Trade Paperback
- Language
- English
- Item Height
- 1 in
- Item Width
- 5.2 in
- Item Weight
- 13.8 Oz
- Number of Pages
- 360 Pages
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2020 Lambda Literary Award winner for best LGBTQ anthology Despite the current survivor-affirming awareness around sexual violence, child sexual abuse, most notably when it's a family member or friend, is still a very taboo topic. There are approximately 42 million child sexual abuse survivors in the U.S. and millions of bystanders who look the other way as the abuse occurs and cover for the harm-doers with no accountability. Documentary filmmaker and survivor of child sexual abuse and adult rape, Aishah Shahidah Simmons invites diasporic Black people to join her in transformative storytelling that envisions a world that ends child sexual abuse without relying on the criminal justice system. Love WITH Accountability features compelling writings by child sexual abuse survivors, advocates, and Simmons's mother, who underscores the detrimental impact of parents/caregivers not believing their children when they disclose their sexual abuse. This collection explores disrupting the inhumane epidemic of child sexual abuse, humanely.
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Publisher
A + K Press
ISBN-10
1849353522
ISBN-13
9781849353526
eBay Product ID (ePID)
5038730537
Product Key Features
Publication Name
Love with Accountability : Digging Up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse
Format
Trade Paperback
Language
English
Subject
Abuse / Child Abuse, Internal Medicine
Publication Year
2019
Type
Textbook
Subject Area
Family & Relationships, Medical
Number of Pages
360 Pages
Dimensions
Item Length
8 in
Item Height
1 in
Item Width
5.2 in
Item Weight
13.8 Oz
Additional Product Features
LCCN
2019-933777
Intended Audience
Trade
Lc Classification Number
Rc569.5.C55l68 2019
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"Aishah Shahidah Simmons''s Love WITH Accountability: Digging Up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse is a book that is wonderfully and sadly timeless. Simmons and the courageously skilled authors she''s assembled write their bodies, memories and imaginations into calcified cracks and bleeding silences. Each piece opens up the absolute terror and consequence of sexual abuse of children, but somehow the entire book is as interested in looking back as it is at looking forward. Love With Accountability reminds me that willful people make liberation happen and willful people and willful art can obliterate terror." --Kiese Laymon, author of Heavy: An American Memoir "Love with Accountability is an honoring of our ancestors who dared to struggle, a gift to our movements fighting to create thriving communities and a guide for future generations to continue this work. Through Simmons self-work and community of activists, leaders and scholars, they have produced a collection of writings to expose painful truths, while also providing a roadmap for accountability that is based on love, not more false solutions. This book is for anyone who is willing to do the difficult, yet necessary work to end the global epidemic of child sexual abuse." --Charlene A. Carruthers, author of Unapologetic: A Black, Queer and Feminist Mandate for Radical Movements "To say that this anthology is long overdue doesn''t even begin to cover it. For decades, and lifetimes, LGBTQIAA survivors of color have been the backbone of the anti-violence movement and frequently their voices have been pushed into the cracks of the mainstream. A fierce offering of complex, powerful, necessary narratives and critique, Love With Accountability: Digging Up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse dreams a new future into being: one where survivors are centered, and where we can dare to believe that accountability and true justice is possible. This is a gift of a book and the ripples of it''s impact will be with us for decades to come." --Jennifer Patterson, Queering Sexual Violence: Radical Voices from Within the Anti-Violence Movement "Not only have the contributors to this anthology found the bravery to share their survival stories, they have also developed practical and urgent solutions to one of the of most pervasive forms of violence impacting our communities at this time in history. . . . This is a book that should be taught in all classes that address gender, violence, family structure, parenting, race, sexuality, disability and equality and read in organizations that address any of those issues as well. Thank you Aishah Simmons for once again revealing an urgent paradigm of healing, a new and necessary definition of love." --Alexis Pauline Gumbs PhD, author of M Archive: After the End of the World "As a society, we''ve gravitated toward solutions to end sexual violence and child sexual abuse that are more about shortcut and hiding and less about compassion and truth. Through their own suffering, healing, thriving, and deep wisdom, Aishah Shahidah Simmons and her contributors to the Love With Accountability: Digging Up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse anthology offer us a path forward that is real, compassionate, and true. This work fills me with hope!" --Terri Poore, Policy Director, Raliance (National Alliance to End Sexual Violence) "With Love With Accountability, Aishah has done it yet again. And she brings an even greater team of radical powerhouses with her this time around. Let us rejoice in this gift of, as Darnell L. Moore notes in the Foreword, ''documented practices that might move survivors in the direction of healing'' and ''critical and radical tools that ... transform harm doers.'' Let us rejoice. Love WITH Accountability is here." --Heidi R. Lewis, Ph.D., Director and Associate Professor of Feminist & Gender Studies at Colorado College, "Aishah Shahidah Simmons''s Love WITH Accountability: Digging Up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse is a book that is wonderfully and sadly timeless. Simmons and the courageously skilled authors she''s assembled write their bodies, memories and imaginations into calcified cracks and bleeding silences. Each piece opens up the absolute terror and consequence of sexual abuse of children, but somehow the entire book is as interested in looking back as it is at looking forward. Love With Accountability reminds me that willful people make liberation happen and willful people and willful art can obliterate terror." --Kiese Laymon, author of Heavy: An American Memoir "Love with Accountability is an honoring of our ancestors who dared to struggle, a gift to our movements fighting to create thriving communities and a guide for future generations to continue this work. Through Simmons self-work and community of activists, leaders and scholars, they have produced a collection of writings to expose painful truths, while also providing a roadmap for accountability that is based on love, not more false solutions. This book is for anyone who is willing to do the difficult, yet necessary work to end the global epidemic of child sexual abuse." --Charlene A. Carruthers, author of Unapologetic: A Black, Queer and Feminist Mandate for Radical Movements "To say that this anthology is long overdue doesn''t even begin to cover it. For decades, and lifetimes, LGBTQIAA survivors of color have been the backbone of the anti-violence movement and frequently their voices have been pushed into the cracks of the mainstream. A fierce offering of complex, powerful, necessary narratives and critique, Love With Accountability: Digging Up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse dreams a new future into being: one where survivors are centered, and where we can dare to believe that accountability and true justice is possible. This is a gift of a book and the ripples of it''s impact will be with us for decades to come." --Jennifer Patterson, Queering Sexual Violence: Radical Voices from Within the Anti-Sexual Violence Movement "Not only have the contributors to this anthology found the bravery to share their survival stories, they have also developed practical and urgent solutions to one of the of most pervasive forms of violence impacting our communities at this time in history. . . . This is a book that should be taught in all classes that address gender, violence, family structure, parenting, race, sexuality, disability and equality and read in organizations that address any of those issues as well. Thank you Aishah Simmons for once again revealing an urgent paradigm of healing, a new and necessary definition of love." --Alexis Pauline Gumbs PhD, author of M Archive: After the End of the World "As a society, we''ve gravitated toward solutions to end sexual violence and child sexual abuse that are more about shortcut and hiding and less about compassion and truth. Through their own suffering, healing, thriving, and deep wisdom, Aishah Shahidah Simmons and her contributors to the Love With Accountability: Digging Up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse anthology offer us a path forward that is real, compassionate, and true. This work fills me with hope!" --Terri Poore, Policy Director, Raliance (National Alliance to End Sexual Violence) "With Love With Accountability, Aishah has done it yet again. And she brings an even greater team of radical powerhouses with her this time around. Let us rejoice in this gift of, as Darnell L. Moore notes in the Foreword, ''documented practices that might move survivors in the direction of healing'' and ''critical and radical tools that ... transform harm doers.'' Let us rejoice. Love WITH Accountability is here." --Heidi R. Lewis, Ph.D., Director and Associate Professor of Feminist & Gender Studies at Colorado College, "Aishah Shahidah Simmons's Love WITH Accountability: Digging Up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse is a book that is wonderfully and sadly timeless. Simmons and the courageously skilled authors she's assembled write their bodies, memories and imaginations into calcified cracks and bleeding silences. Each piece opens up the absolute terror and consequence of sexual abuse of children, but somehow the entire book is as interested in looking back as it is at looking forward. Love With Accountability reminds me that willful people make liberation happen and willful people and willful art can obliterate terror." --Kiese Laymon, author of Heavy: An American Memoir "Love with Accountability is an honoring of our ancestors who dared to struggle, a gift to our movements fighting to create thriving communities and a guide for future generations to continue this work. Through Simmons self-work and community of activists, leaders and scholars, they have produced a collection of writings to expose painful truths, while also providing a roadmap for accountability that is based on love, not more false solutions. This book is for anyone who is willing to do the difficult, yet necessary work to end the global epidemic of child sexual abuse." --Charlene A. Carruthers, author of Unapologetic: A Black, Queer and Feminist Mandate for Radical Movements "To say that this anthology is long overdue doesn't even begin to cover it. For decades, and lifetimes, LGBTQIAA survivors of color have been the backbone of the anti-violence movement and frequently their voices have been pushed into the cracks of the mainstream. A fierce offering of complex, powerful, necessary narratives and critique, Love With Accountability: Digging Up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse dreams a new future into being: one where survivors are centered, and where we can dare to believe that accountability and true justice is possible. This is a gift of a book and the ripples of it's impact will be with us for decades to come." --Jennifer Patterson, Queering Sexual Violence: Radical Voices from Within the Anti-Sexual Violence Movement "Not only have the contributors to this anthology found the bravery to share their survival stories, they have also developed practical and urgent solutions to one of the of most pervasive forms of violence impacting our communities at this time in history. . . . This is a book that should be taught in all classes that address gender, violence, family structure, parenting, race, sexuality, disability and equality and read in organizations that address any of those issues as well. Thank you Aishah Simmons for once again revealing an urgent paradigm of healing, a new and necessary definition of love." -- Alexis Pauline Gumbs PhD, author of M Archive: After the End of the World. "As a society, we've gravitated toward solutions to end sexual violence and child sexual abuse that are more about shortcut and hiding and less about compassion and truth. Through their own suffering, healing, thriving, and deep wisdom, Aishah Shahidah Simmons and her contributors to the Love With Accountability: Digging Up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse anthology offer us a path forward that is real, compassionate, and true. This work fills me with hope!" --Terri Poore, Policy Director, Raliance (National Alliance to End Sexual Violence) "With Love With Accountability, Aishah has done it yet again. And she brings an even greater team of radical powerhouses with her this time around. Let us rejoice in this gift of, as Darnell L. Moore notes in the Foreword, 'documented practices that might move survivors in the direction of healing' and 'critical and radical tools that ... transform harm doers.' Let us rejoice. Love WITH Accountability is here." --Heidi R. Lewis, Ph.D., Director and Associate Professor of Feminist & Gender Studies at Colorado College
Table of Content
Dedication Content Notice Aishah Shahidah Simmons Foreword Darnell L. Moore "Digging Up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse: An Introduction" Aishah Shahidah Simmons 1. "Paying it Forward Instead of Looking Backwards" by Loretta Ross 2. "Love With Accountability: A Mother's Lament" by Gwendolyn Zoharah Simmons 3. "Soul Survivor: Reimagining Legacy" by Chevara Orrin 4. "Fast" by Kai Green 5. "On Moving Forward" by Ferentz Lafargue Breathe 6. "Social Silence and Sexual Violence" by Cyree Jarelle Johnson 7. "Embracing Our Humanity in the Accountability Process" by Tracy Ivy 8. "Peacock Feathers and Things" by Najma Johnson 9. "activist, poet, prison abolitionist, human rights advocate, incest and rape survivor" by Thea Matthews Breathe 10. "Becoming Each Other's Harvest" by Lynn Roberts 11. "Pops'nAde: A Courageous Daughter & Her Non-Abusive Father on Loving Lessons, Living Legacies (L)earned after Sexual Abuse" by Adenike A. Harris and Peter J. Harris 12. "Love Centered Accountability" by Danielle Moss 13. "Self-Love and Accountability" by Cecelia Falls 14. "In My Mother's Name: Restorative Justice for Survivors of Incest" by Liz Alexander Breathe 15. "The Coiled Spring First Grader Deep Inside: Sexual Violence and Restorative Justice" by Sikivu Hutchinson 16. "Our Silence Will Not Save Us" by Thema Bryant-Davis 17. "Safe Space the Language of Love" by Kimberly Gaubault 18. "Unfinished" by Worokya Duncan 19. "The Least of These: Black Children, Sexual Abuse, and Theological Malpractice" by Ahmad Greene-Hayes Breathe 20. "Who is Accountable to the Black Latinx Child?" by Luz Marquez Benbow 21. "Reclaiming Our Voice" by Tanisha Esperanza Jarvis 22. "Network of Care" by Alicia Sanchez Gill 23. "The Fear of Believing Survivors" by Rosa Cabrera 24. "Colliding Traumas" by Esther Armah Breathe 25. "Kissing, Forgiveness, and Accountability" by Farah Tanis 26. "This is My Return: 'The Soul is Covered in a Thousand Veils"' by Sevonna Brown 27. "Violation and Making The Road By Walking It" by Zoe Flowers 28. "Silent No More: The Unheard Echoes of Childhood Sexual Abuse in the African American Community" by Indira Henard 29. "We need Speak7 because Black Children Matter and Child Sexual Abuse Thrives in Silence!" by MiKeiya Morrow 30. "The Vanguard of Love, Accountability, the Young Advocates Institute, and You & I" by Tracy D. Wright and Monika Johnson-Hostler Breathe 31. "Sunset Seeking Accountability After All of These Years" by Tonya Lovelace 32. "#OnTurning50" by Kalimah Johnson 33. "Poetic Justice" by Nicole Denson 34. "The Truth As I Know It" by Jey'nce Mizarahi Poindexter 35. "Sometimes, The Wolves Wear Lipstick And We Call Them Auntie" by Kenyette Tisha Barnes Breathe 36. "The Compassion Imperative" by Mel Anthony Philips 37. "Thoughts on Discipline, Justice, Love and Accountability: Redefining Words to Reimagine Our Realities" by Qui Dorian Alexander 38. "Casting Aspersions" by Tashmica Torok 39. "Accountability to Ourselves and Our Children" by Ignacio G. Hutiá Xeiti Rivera 40. "Confronting Harm Past and Present for Tomorrow," by Edxie Betts The Acknowledgements
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