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07 May 2008
Growing Up 101!
6 of 6 found this helpful Great book that addresses the anatomical/physiological changes, as well as the social & emotional aspects of growing up. Many things will make you blush, or at first may seem possibly inappropriate, however, it is better to have this addressed in factual form, than to perpetuate school-yard myths. (No, you won't go blind!)I never in my life thought I could address wet dreams with my 2 boys (11 & 13) but it became almost a joke-type situation after they read that chapter in the book ("I won't ask, so don't tell, just know the clean sheets are in the closet in the hall!!!") It also lays the foundation for discussions.
I highly suggest reading it first so you know what the boys will be exposed to. (Have an open mind, and realize what they talk about on the bus is far more graphic and usually vulgar compared to what is contained in these pages.) The book is written on a boys level, speaks to them in terms they understand or are familiar with (the "slang terms" section is what I have a hard time with, but that is what they are hearing about from friends) and gives very good information. I think it is very good for early or late bloomers (I have one of each!) It makes it clear that everyone progresses at different rates, and that is normal. It makes them realize that all the facets of puberty that seem so abnormal from what they've known, are really very predictable and normal.
If you are a very conservative person, I'm not so sure you would feel comfortable with this book, but from a medical/developmental stand point, it is really very good. The book is suggested for boys 9-14; I would suggest 11 and up. 9 or 10 years old seems to young to expose them to some of the topics included. A must for any boy over 13 or 14, just to clarify information that I am sure they probably have gotten misinformation on. Best to be used as a conversation starter or segway to offering to answer any questions they might have. I am thankful to have had this book to give to them to open lines of communication on a sometimes difficult or uncomfortable subject to address. I actually learned a few things myself! (And I was a Childbirth Educator for years)