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Member-to-member contact policy

To keep the eBay marketplace functioning effectively, we know it is important for members to be able to communicate easily with each other.

However, to keep everyone in our community safe we have guidelines and policies that cover how you communicate.

We don't allow our members to:

To find out more about our policies related to member-to-member communications, please read our full policy guidelines below.

Frequently Asked Questions


Does eBay monitor members' messages?

We sometimes monitor messages sent between members for fraud, abuse, spam, and other policy violations.

While we understand members may wish to keep communications private, if you contact members through channels other than eBay, we can't help if problems arise.

What can I do about a member who's threatening me?

If you ever receive a threat, report it to us immediately.

We'll look into it and determine what action is needed, which could include suspending the member's account. You should also report threats to local law enforcement.

A member left Feedback which I don't think is accurate or fair. Can I have it removed?

On request, we may remove some kinds of Feedback – if it contains hate speech or profanities, for example. However, while we discourage rude and accusatory comments, we don't remove them if they're related to a specific transaction.

We would recommend getting in touch with the member and asking them to revise their feedback. Read our article on viewing, responding, and changing feedback.

Read our full policy

Member-to-member contact policy overview

Members can send messages to each other through eBay. We encourage open communication between our members but we don't allow our members to use these options to send spam, offers to buy or sell off eBay, threats, profanity or hate speech. We also don't allow members to offer, reference or request email addresses, phone numbers or other contact information, physical addresses, web addresses or links within eBay messaging systems (Best Offer, eBay Messages etc.). eBay may monitor messages sent through eBay and between users for fraud, abuse, spam and other violations of eBay's policies.

Activity that doesn't follow eBay policy could result in a range of actions including for example: administratively ending or cancelling listings, hiding or demoting all listings from search results, blocking some or all of your messages/communication with other members, lowering seller rating, buying or selling restrictions, and account suspension. All fees paid or payable in relation to listings or accounts on which we take any action will not be refunded or otherwise credited to your account.

Please remember that we don't have control over communication unless it takes place through eBay. Also, posts on eBay community boards aren't covered by this policy. However, we do have a Community Content Policy.

Want to reduce the amount of email you get from us?

If you want to reduce the amount of emails you receive from eBay, you can change your communication preferences.

What are the guidelines?

Spam (email)

We don't allow our members to send each other spam. "Spam" is an email (or part of an email) that is both unsolicited and commercial in nature.

Unsolicited means the message was sent without the explicit request of the person who received it. Commercial means the message discusses buying, selling, or trading of goods or services.

Some examples of spam include:

  • Unsolicited email offers sent to potential buyers
  • Email messages sent to a member on a mailing list without that member's prior permission
  • Invitations to join a mailing list that aren't related to your eBay Store
  • Offers to buy or sell off eBay 
  • Email sent using eBay Messages (or features such as the Contact member link) to send unsolicited commercial offers
Not allowed Not allowed
  • Offers to buy or sell items outside of eBay 
  • Messages that include email addresses, phone numbers or social media links, contact information or usernames
  • Messages that include links or web addresses
  • Email and websites impersonating eBay – Some members have reported receiving requests for personal information in email messages that look like they were sent from eBay, but weren't. Learn how to recognise spoof (fake) eBay websites and how to report spoof emails.
  • Showing or linking to direct email addresses in a listing or Store pages. Instead, buyers can use the "Ask a question" feature on the listing page to send email messages to the seller.

If you have received spam from another eBay member, please report it.

If you received a warning for violating our spam policy and you believe it was sent in error, or you were suspended for violating our spam policy and would like to learn more, please contact us.



We don't tolerate threats of physical harm using any method including by email or on our public message boards (such as our discussion boards, Answer Centre, and other community areas).

Example: "If I don't hear from you by tomorrow about the item I purchased, I will come over to your house and break your legs."

If you receive a threat, please report it to us immediately. Also, report it to local law enforcement. In addition to contacting law enforcement, you should consider contacting your local phone company if the threat was made by telephone or the other member's Internet service provider (ISP) if the threat was made through email communication.

If, through the email evidence you provide, we confirm a serious threat of physical harm was made, the offending member's account will be indefinitely suspended.

Profanity and hate speech

Members aren't allowed to use profanity or hate speech in their communications with other members through eBay. If you receive a message with this kind of language from another eBay member and the message was sent through eBay, please report it to us immediately.


Feedback comments containing inappropriate content

Allowed Removable

These types of Feedback comments may be removed:

  • Feedback containing personally identifying information about another member, such as a member's address, phone number, email address or real name. We may also remove Feedback that can be used to obtain personally identifying information about another member, such as an item tracking number.
  • Feedback not related to a sale, including a comment, reply or follow-up related to a different sale.
  • Feedback containing political, religious, social or other commentary, rather than genuine comments about a sale.
  • Feedback containing language that is profane, vulgar, obscene or racist, as well as comments containing adult material or physical threats.
  • Negative Feedback comments left by a seller that directly contradict a positive rating.
  • Feedback containing links or promotional language which encourages buyers to purchase outside of eBay.
  • Feedback that includes references to law enforcement investigations or eBay or PayPal investigations.
Not allowed Not removable

These types of Feedback comments arent removed:

  • Feedback comments containing accusatory language such as "fraud", "liar", "cheater", "scam artist" or "con man". Although this type of comment is strongly discouraged, it isn't removed unless it also contains content that isn't allowed.
  • Feedback comments containing URLs or links to eBay.com.au or PayPal.com.au.

Additional information

As outlined in our User Privacy Notice, we don't sell or disclose your information for marketing purposes. Your email address and other contact info might be disclosed to the other party when involved in a successful eBay transaction with you. eBay will investigate and take action on reports of misuse of this information.

Why does eBay have this policy?

Communication between members is a key part of the eBay buying or selling experience, and we want to keep it as open as possible. But it's important that our members feel safe, and don't feel like they're getting unwanted email or offers from other members.

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